“Everyone is living soft except me. How do I stay sane when I feel like I’m behind?”

Dear Jiggy,
I swear, every time I open Instagram or TikTok, someone is soft-lifing in Lagos, getting flown out, or launching a business with mysterious funding. Meanwhile, I’m just trying to manage my 9–5, keep my skin clear, and not cry in Danfo. I know I shouldn’t compare, but it’s hard. I feel like I’m running behind.
— Signed, Broke but Beautiful